I never, ever want the tempo of a song to change. I don’t want any beat matching or pitch control. I want to play songs as they are, at their normal, 100% speed.
When I do cross fading from one track to the next, the pitch slider is changed to match the tempo of the previous song.
No, the Starter Mode is designed for beginners and automatically beat matches the songs. Many of the controls are intentionally removed to maximize simplicity and ease of use for beginners. If you want to use djay without sync / automatic beat matching you need to use one of the other view modes. I recommend you use Classic Mode as it is the closest to Starter Mode.